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4/15/2008 12:45:36 PM

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Should I let go...

Well, it's been a month and my husband came clean about having an affair with someone he knows at work to be honest I really didn't go hysterical when he told me Why? because I knew something was going on... So, anyways, I told him to leave and of course he doesnt want to tells me he wants to work it out and he will change and be the husband and father he needs and needed to be for us.  Right, now I just don't know...anymore.  Part of me says stay and another part of me says "I am tired of hurting let go"....  I honestly do not know what to do I mean I don't even know if I love Him like when we first met.... I mean it's not there anymore at least I don't think so.... well anwyays, What should I do? I mean now he is trying to change i wanted this from him before and of course he never would listen to a word i would say...and of course Why? my question to him now is Why now? I needed you before? all he can say is he regrets everything he did and that He is going to be the husband I always wanted...but, believe me I JUST DONT KNOW.. 


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Posted on 4/8/2008 11:45 AM

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Take time to think. Make no hasty decisions. If you decide to reconcile then demand he go to counseling. You will know how serious he is by his reaction..let him know in order for you to try to trust him he will have to also be accountable and find a new job so that he is not in contact with her.
If he does not  agree to your terms then say adios amigo!
But really...don't make a move until you have had time to think!
Let us know what you decide!
by mtnvly   1761 Posts
Posted on 10/10/2008 6:33 AM
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