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4/3/2008 6:00:00 PM
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In love with a married man. Can't let him go.

I have fallen for a married man, and although I am easily duped by men when there is great sex involved, I believe him when he tells me that he loves me too.  I do NOT want him to leave his wife. I understand that if she finds out it could really mess everyone up but I can't stop loving him. 

I wanted to know what everyone thought of me talking to her, and "opening" up their relationship (slowly over time) as he thinks that she may have become a lesbian over time and that she is no longer interested in sex with him.  I have no problem with her at all, and I would value her if I had a relationship with her too...  Not in a gay way, but as a friend.  If she truly does not care about sex with him any more why would she care if I was...? 


by SmartNSexy   8 Posts   read more from user >>
Posted on 3/27/2008 5:00 PM
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It's almost......nah......it IS sad to see all the cheating!  I have to agree with all of the statements made by everyone.  I made the mistake of believing my ex when he said "she" was just a friend that was ill. (and she really is ill)  I literally prayed for her on the phone over several conversations.  When it all came out....well lets just say what he said and what she said were 2 different things.  She said " he said he loves me" even sent me proof.  He said " she was just a "F" hummmmmm.  A liar is a LIAR doesnt matter who to.
by Rache   30 Posts
Posted on 5/12/2008 10:50 AM
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First, of all I had my husband cheat on me and I could just imagine all the BS he was telling the OW which was obviously just the things she wanted to hear..so please don't confront the wife especially to "Open up" no way.  If it was "GREAT SEX" you were looking for there are alot of single men out there you could of gotten involved with...you chose to be with a married man and Trouble is all your asking for...
by achiever479   84 Posts
Posted on 5/8/2008 9:52 AM
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karma!
by aro78   13 Posts
Posted on 5/8/2008 9:28 AM
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He is married, bottom line.  He is lying to you and to his wife, no doubt whatsoever. He more than
likely is going home and is with her as well.  

If you invite a married man into your life you are just asking for trouble. 
by officegal   12 Posts
Posted on 5/7/2008 12:40 PM
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Dont be stupid...and how would you like it if his wife were cheating with YOUR husband.???? Have some respect for yourself and his wife and dump the jerk..Get a life girly, and leave this animal alone. He is not worth it..you can get good sex with a good and decent single man..Wake up before you ruin your best years..and wake up old and alone...!
by pscott   6 Posts
Posted on 4/16/2008 6:45 PM
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I wish you were kidding about this, because then I'd be able to laugh.... Seriously though, do you think this guy is the prize you're making him out to be? He's cheating on his wife... what part of that statement jumps out at you? How can you trust him? What makes you think he's any different to you, than her? Do I think you should tell his wife? Hell no!!! In the first place, it's not your place to do that, and in the 2nd place, he'll hate you for it, a