thats why they made pen and paper!u write down whats been said between the both of u.date it,put the day and what hes asking u to do.it will stand in court.dont let him know u are doing that.always keep things wrote down when it comes to child custody and div.i my self keep books of what goes on between me and my ex,hes a ex from hell too.i stay one step ahead of him.we have been divorced for 4yrs now.we have a girl together.so when he wants to get her on my wkend for a special day or his family thing.i write it down .be a step ahead of him,dont let him break u down,my ex cheated on me,so i was the bitch from hell and still is!good luck

Why play along with his games? Be calm, be firm, and tell him that you don't respond to blackmail. The more you try to make him be seen for what he is, the more you look like the one with the problem. Let him reveal himself, it'll happen. Take care of you! And please remember...even thru your frustrations, shelter the kids from negativity....not only in things said to them but in comments made to someone else that they may overhear. All they need to know is that they still have TWO parents that love them. Hold steady and it will all work out.

NO I AM NOT, THOUGH I HAVE BEEN PLAYING ALONG WITH HIS LITTLE GAMES VIA PHONE. I GUESS I NEED TO FIGURE OUT HOW TO MAKE HIM BE SEEN FOR THE PERSON HE REALLY IS. NO WOMAN, OR MAN FOR THAT MATTER SHOUL BE PUT IN A SITUATION LIKE THIS .

Been there done that. I hope you are not still sleeping with him. Bad idea that can and will be used in his favor.