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3/10/2008 1:32:13 PM
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do i stay or do i leave?

he has cheated on me twice that i know about. left me once. won't leave despite me wanting a separation for the past year. we have 3 kids. i am miserable with him. they hate him but that's their dad. is it best to leave with the kids, stay and be miserable, or get a court order to get him out and get a divorce? 
by shake   8 Posts
Posted on 3/3/2008 1:32 PM
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It sounds like he is getting everything his way right now. I think you need to get tough and say your not taking this anymore. I agree with Mikem. If he won't leave, I would. If you have family to turn to right now that is supportive, I think that would be best for you and the kids. If not, if you can afford to get a place on your own, that might be best. It sounds like the two of you in the same house is terrible for everyone. Get the ball rolling with an attorney, you need to look out for you and he kids. Take care and keep me posted.
by Bunnee   115 Posts
Posted on 3/5/2008 9:28 PM
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this does not sound like a happy or healthy relationship.  if you're sure, you should pack up your kids and leave (if he won't).  naturally you need to let him know where you are so he can see and talk to the kids.  You need to get the paperwork going for the divorce at the same time.  right now he seems to be fighting this, but once it starts, he has to accept it. that doesn't mean he will be any easier to work with though....
by mikem   286 Posts
Posted on 3/3/2008 2:52 PM
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