Ok....so I broke my silence rule 

As advised by my atty, I emailed stbx that our daughter, G, needs tuturing in algebra and wanted to know if he could help out in any way.  The tutoring will be $75/session and could be one or two sessions per week.   His response, "I send you $$$ a month, that's what it's for."  Well...no.  It's Pendente Lite support and pays the bills (just barely) on the house.  Dirtbag has yet to follow court orders, and has yet to reimburse me for medical expenses for the children, which at this point he owes me about $1000. 

Of course, dirtbag also uses this as an excuse to get off topic.  Telling me I went from mommy and daddy to him.  Like he was my savior when I was 23 years old.  Gimme a break. .....  Thus...I broke my silence.

I told him "Yes...yes...I went from mommy and daddy to you...My my you just saved my life.  Get over it.  We got married asshole and I worked just as you did, but did double time supporting you and your businesses.  Get help...you're a lost cause." 

He tells me that I am not sticking to the subject at hand.  Really?  I thought I simply replied to his reply, which is what I told him.  I simply said, "You didn't stick to the subject at hand, and I replied to your crap.  I'm done...but by all means, you keep going. Don't underestimate me."

What did I hear back?  Nothing.  Hmmm....verbally kicking his ass at this moment feels really good!  Peace....