When is enough finally enough?
I realize the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. At what point can you say enough? I find that the same things continue to happen everyday and he knows that it irritates me to no end and I build my wall even higher. Is he trying to push me a way so he can be the victim, or is he really that dense? Case in point... this morning and every morning he wakes up at 4 and automatically thinks that if he crawls on top of me I will instantly want to have sex. Ummmm no! I don't wake him up when I do laundry or read from 1-3 every morning. And he knows that I am awake half the night but his selfish needs make sure that if he's awake I need to be to. I say no and he gets forceful until I squirm away and by this point I am extremely irritated and wide awake. I express very clearly that I want to sleep so he rolls over and pouts loudly for an hour and a half until my alarm goes off. He doesn't talk to me let alone touch me while we are awake but every morning I am supposed to forget that and be so freaking happy that he acknowledges me. I am worth more than that and I know that but I'm not sure what to do or say to get him to stop.