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I'm really trying to move on but... 

I'm trying to get positive influences in my life so I recently signed up on Facebook to find old friends that I haven't seen in a while.  It has worked really well until just this week.  The ho that my stbx is screwing around with has been sending me messages through Facebook, I ignored the 1st one, but the 2nd message had to do with my weight, she made a point of saying "I'm 110 lbs, what about you?" and that she knows she looks good, I didn't know what she looked like until I saw her pic on Facebook, she is the typical nasty white trash that hangs out in bars every weekend.  She is 38 or 39 but looks 10yrs older, fried looking dirty blonde hair and she looks like she doesn't have bottom teeth or wears dentures, I'm not sure which.  I am overweight, but I have been working on it, all to help myself look and feel better.  My stbx says he is still attracted to me and that was never an issue, but it still hurt.  I am choosing to ignore her 2nd comment and I need to see if I can get her blocked from sending messages to me.  She is the one that is wrong for what she did, I know it takes 2 to have an affair, but there is nothing worse than a person that goes after someone who is married 
by kricket72  17 Posts 

Posted on 1/20/2010 4:33 PM
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Block its easy i did it. my stbx's girl looks the same way and im bigger and mine said that was never an issue either but when the new girls half your size ...... it makes u feel differently. in some ways i wish he would have picked a better looking girl so i could at least think he traded up but all he did was trade down, not pretty i think of her as horse face thats been road hard and put away wet far to may times, white trash whore and its not just bitter stbxw talk either anyone who sees her says same, and not to make me feel better either. there's a line in a song that goes "any woman who can lay her hands on a married man is about as low as a gal can get"
by Bethatc   68 Posts
Posted on 1/20/2010 11:01 PM
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the new privacy stuff makes it very easy to block the her and your ex. Do it! I did and I don't have to worry about them now. They can't send me messages or even see that I am on facebook at all!
by hunted1   779 Posts
Posted on 1/20/2010 4:58 PM
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Take her at face value--it is facebook, after all.

Ignore her.  Give people enough rope and they'll hang themselves.

Take the high road.  She's probably a meth-head anyway.

You deserve better, yes, keep your head up and move forward.
by rubyslippers   2624 Posts
Posted on 1/20/2010 4:39 PM
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