I have been trying to limit contact with Mr. X, as it still hurts me to deal with with him. I have far too many feelings of hurt and anger and betrayal, none of which he understands, to want to deal with him. I try to limit my contact to email when I absolutely need to have him know something or need to know something myself. I don't send him chatty information or request that from him. Recently, I had to contact him about mail that came to the house. I didn't know if it was important. Turned out not to be, but the last time it happened, it actually had a check in it, so I wanted to ask him about it. Most of his mail gets forwarded to him, but there are occasional mess ups by the USPS.
Today, I get a message from him requesting one of my recipes for something he really likes. He'd attempted to take it, but the file didn't transfer (how sad). I think he has a lot of nerve wanting me to take the time to supply him with a recipe for something he'll cook for his OW. I've ignored the request, feeling, he wants a new life, that will include HER cooking and not mine, no matter whether or not he liked mine. My other thought is to create a nice recipe, like (evil laugh), take one cup bleach and add to one cup ammonia....or be sure to add 5 tbsp. drain cleaner right before serving....Nah, better to just ignore his nasty ass.