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Doesn't want me...wants my recipes 

I have been trying to limit contact with Mr. X, as it still hurts me to deal with with him.  I have far too many feelings of hurt and anger and betrayal, none of which he understands, to want to deal with him.  I try to limit my contact to email when I absolutely need to have him know something or need to know something myself.  I don't send him chatty information or request that from him.  Recently, I had to contact him about mail that came to the house.  I didn't know if it was important.  Turned out not to be, but the last time it happened, it actually had a check in it, so I wanted to ask him about it.  Most of his mail gets forwarded to him, but there are occasional mess ups by the USPS.  

 

Today, I get a message from him requesting one of my recipes for something he really likes.  He'd attempted to take it, but the file didn't transfer (how sad).  I think he has a lot of nerve wanting me to take the time to supply him with a recipe for something he'll cook for his OW.  I've ignored the request, feeling, he wants a new life, that will include HER cooking and not mine, no matter whether or not he liked mine.  My other thought is to create a nice recipe, like (evil laugh), take one cup bleach and add to one cup ammonia....or be sure to add 5 tbsp. drain cleaner right before serving....Nah, better to just ignore his nasty ass.

 

 

by stCheshirecat  302 Posts 

Posted on 9/26/2009 2:39 PM
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He does have a lot of nerve..Best to ignore him ....and smile. Say SORRY if he asks again..I lost that one!
by mtnvly   3539 Posts
Posted on 9/27/2009 1:13 PM
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I would offer to sell them to him.  Make a few bucks off him.  Betty Crocker didn't get rich giving the secrets away!
by Iam   480 Posts
Posted on 9/27/2009 12:39 PM
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I meant one "key" ingredient, sheesh

by flutterby   829 Posts
Posted on 9/27/2009 11:55 AM
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It never ceases to amaze me the gall these men (and women) have.  They have NO conscience.  How does that happen?  I'm curious to see what happens here at Thanksgiving.  I'm the only one that's been able to successfully make his mother's orange rolls.  His 3 sisters have tried and failed.  Oh well, I don't even like them.  I guess I won't have to make them anymore. 

I would just ignore his message but if he continues to be a pest about it maybe send it leaving out one keep ingredient, or adding one, like salt or cinnamon or something that would ruin it.  Just a thought.

by flutterby   829 Posts
Posted on 9/27/2009 11:54 AM
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Hoo dat tasty!  Needs some onions an okra thouh.
by piercedheart   27 Posts
Posted on 9/26/2009 7:06 PM
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send him one of these....

http://ob-la-blog.blogspot.com/2005/09/worst-recipe-ever.html


by spaznskitz   7745 Posts
Posted on 9/26/2009 7:04 PM
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He now lives about 3 hours away, so I can't cook an adulturated version of either.  Too bad.  Might like the recipes for "whoop ass" or that "bust you up" dessert.  LOL!  It's just galling after being used by this man for many years to still be that person to use and abuse.  Thank you, no.  I am trying to move forward, not back, so I don't want to step back into doormat mode.
by stCheshirecat   302 Posts
Posted on 9/26/2009 6:50 PM
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Give him a recipe for a disaster.

(1) good wife + (1) no good husband.  Throw in (1) scoop of affairs = disaster.
by lifeinpurgatory   1830 Posts
Posted on 9/26/2009 6:48 PM
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How 'bout you cook him up a big plate of whoop ass?  Then serve up sum bust you up for desert?  I got jus the recipe for that happy meal.
by piercedheart   27 Posts
Posted on 9/26/2009 6:40 PM
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Wow, that makes three of two of us that had the same thought.  You forgot to add some dried up dog poop as a sprinkler for the top.  No, dogs should be better respected than that.
by Betrayedforaram   451 Posts
Posted on 9/26/2009 4:57 PM
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LOL I had the same thought when I started to read. You are right though it is best just to ignore it. I will never get over the nerve of some people.
by sjg   1772 Posts
Posted on 9/26/2009 3:47 PM
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