Rented my own apartment this week, a 1 Bedroom. My son can come and visit, though he probably will be reluctant as we don't get along well.
Parents are not supportive and don't believe I can "make it" even though I'm MIDDLE AGE for crying out loud!
Friends are excited, say I need to get away from the verbal assaults and mistreatment.
I don't think a 65 yr old will wake up any time soon, so I don't expect him to change.
I will start the filing process after I get settled, either separation or right to divorce? Not sure.
There are a lot of questions, but as far as moving out, it is easier than expected. Thanks to my good friends, they solved a lot of my issues.
It is expensive, no doubt, and I don't have regular income, but I will work all that out later on.
Parents are worried he will sue for 1/2 house payment since he has our son. But we will see. He doesn't do much in life, so I don't see him doing that, either. That would take a lot of effort and money.
We are worried about our 13 yr old being here alone sometimes, but it would only be a few hours. I would need ideas for summer, though.