Excuse Me but it is my time to vent and God knows I am going to now :( 

I am sick and tired of this bull crap going on in my life. Yep, I am separated for over two yrs now yes financially I am unable to afford the divorce and all those things. But I am tired of my ex looking down her nose and acting all innocent and goody two shoes. My oldest son sees his mom for the first time in three months and all she can say is hey and bye to him. No hugs, no kisses, no small talk, no compasssion to him. He is twelve and has issues with her after she left him and told him she loved her boyfriend more than him. She had a new baby by her boyfriend and sees our three yr old every other week. So he doesn't talk to her like other children do to their moms. He actually hates her her new baby her boyfriend. As a child I would to. But I am an adult and no matter what if a child has a problem with me I am going to my son and get it right. No matter how small or great the problem. I am sick of it. If I get loud and tell her where the bear crapped in the woods all of a sudden I am out of control and a threat to her safety. So I have to allow this behavior and really cannot tell her what a immature brat she is. Yep this adultery thing sucks for the children and children shouldn't be treated like this. I hope yours isn't but if they are how do you handle the emotion of whooping ass and taking names later. Don't tell me that she is still his mom because that aint no pardon from here actions.