Anything you say or do can be used against you in a court of law! 

So we had court today. Ugh! It was so horrible. The one time I was able to look at him he shot me an evil look and I looked down and never looked his way again. He lied thru his nasty unbrushed teeth! I was on Prozac along with Phentermine to lose some extra baby weight that wouldn't budge, well he told the court today that I had a perscription for Prozac for depression! He is claiming I have mental illness issues. Well it was a little embarrassing to say I was on it for weight loss but it was better then them thinking it was for depression.

The hardest part of today was that one of my "so-called friends" made a printout of my Facebook status. A day where I was so mad at him but then my kids were being really goofy and making me laugh that I put "feels bipolar today" Well him and his lawyer were trying to say I felt mental, it was a joke! I also had taken this quiz that said I was 60% naughty and the lawyer asked if I was really 60% naughty. I said, sir it's a stupid quiz on facebook, other facebook users make them up and they have no merrit as to how you actually are and it also pertains to sex and not my with my children. I hope the judge didn't take this stuff and use it to sway his judgement against me. Man, I was doing so good with my facebook. It just goes to show you should never get on those kinda sites when you are in an ugly divorce battle. Even if you think what you say or do is innocent it can be twisted to make you look horrible.

His lawyer also asked about me taking my kids to my friend and her husbands cabin in WI. He referred to it as "when you ran off with your kids to WI" I said, I didn't run off with my kids, I had told my kids I was going to take them so after my stbx had threatened my life and spent the night in jail, I figured it would be good for all of us to get away and relax.

Well I got home and cleared out my facebook and left just close friends and family. It goes to show that nothing you say or do is safe.

My lawyer got a few good digs in so let's hope they made him look worse then me.

We go on the 9th for the no contact hearing, I am going for the troat! I have so much on him he is gonna wish he would have told the truth in the beginning. Today he might have gotten me, but come the 9th I will be having some sweet revenge.

I don't like the whole "revenge" term. What I'm doing is trying not to back down for the sake of my kids. I feel if I give up then my daughter might end up in the same situation and I cannot let that happen. I wish for once he would look at what he is doing to his children. How would he like it if in 20 years our daughter is faced with the same situation? He wouldn't be able to stick up for her or take her side because he did that same thing to her mother. I just can't let that happen to her, if she sees her mom won't put up with that sort of thing then maybe she will never have to.