Taking the steps to get there with no help.. surprise? 

So if you didn't read my last advice question, my wife decided that my son should stay at my house because she is unable to control him. Well i was all over the place on it but with some help (spaz) decided yes I should have him over. So today, after his football game, he came over and spent the afternoon with me. He is grounded and the wife said that he wasn't allowed to watch tv. No problem here. (He was watching tv when I called their house first thing this morning.) Tried to discuss it with the wife and she said, I thought him being at your house would help me follow through. yeah help me follow through! I tried to discuss it and she said, its too much right now, i said when is it not too much. The night before my son took off and went to his friends house at 8ish. He didn't come home til 10:15! He is 10 years old!  I asked her why she didn't go get him and she said it was too late! i said why in the heck didn't you go get him when he first went over and you told him no and that he had to come home!  The humor was, the next night my wife ended up eating with the kids over at my house. I told her they could eat with me and I would drop em off later, but noooo. At dinner, my son decided he would be rude and I had to reprimand him and even send him away from the table for being disrespectful. My poor girls were staring straight ahead, (hear no evil see no evil...) my wife said not one word. So when I brought them back over after dinner, (we only have one car) my son came out to inform me that my wife said he was going to talk to her and that he is going to stay at her house after all. She then texts me to ask me if I could watch him after school. Sure I said, he can come over. Holy mackeral! She doesn't want him to stay overnight here, but she can drop him here if it suites her. I am off work at home anyway, him being here is great actually but man this is ridiculous. Had to vent......later.