The confusion renews but wait got some clarity! 

So I was thinking alot about how I came across in yesterday's blog and the responses I got. I felt I came across wrong and was worried that I didn't make any sense. So a few things first. No life.... I am not supposed to be paying for everything and I told her that. I told her I would give her a certain amount every week and perhaps help with football, cheerleading costs on a case by case basis. Thisismylife, it is too late to be playing house and I told her that today. I honestly do not believe she has any plans for seeing other people but what do I really know? Flutterby that  Priority quote is awesome! It is exactly how I feel. We have been married for 3 years now and not only has she never changed her name, she never wears her ring either. Spaz you are so right. I do need to set those limits and it is funny you mention that. I tried to talk to her today and told her that I am uncomfortable with the arrangements that she suggested. I told her we can't go back to being boyfriend and girlfriend and that we need to have a routine for the kids. Thanks you guys so much for the feedback. Perhaps this is the wrong place to do this but THANK YOU! I am not crazy and we do need to actually be apart. I am so relieved. She told me the other day that she was explaining what was going on with us to someone and they said "You guys don't act like you are divorcing." Just because we get along does not mean all is well. Later on guys :)