THEY DON'T CARE WHY SHOULD WE 

Hello Everyone, I have been very busy getting myself ready for my daughter's wedding, trying to find a job, helping my parents and getting a new grip on my new life without him. 

I have read blogs every now and then, felt sorry for many who are going thru a major change in their lives.  I want to say after reading so much sadness:   that the ones that are left behind are doing an injustice to themselves by giving that ex partner the time of day, meaning a single thought. 

These folks that left us, are now pursuing a life that has meaning for them without us, do they stop and consider the fallout left behind.....NO!!!! 

We pick up the pieces and try our best to move on, we deal with the constant thought of what could have been, we re live the memories of sad or happy times, we need to release these folks from our minds. 

I am not saying this is easy to do, but life is short we need to move in a direction to learn a new life without the other. 

I am for the new life without him, I am very scared when I think of what I have to face, but I believe there is a purpose for what I just went thru, we can say life is unfair, which it is, and than add to it:   this to shall pass. 

I am speaking from my heart, I gave my husband so much control in my mind and my life, it is time to take back the control over my thoughts and focus on ME......and if you have children, make them your ME also, they need you with or without him/her.