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Tick, Tick, Tick.... 

The countdown has begun.....7 days until the moving van arrives and carts off stbxh's stuff. Friday, May 15th....

 

 

We have moved three times in our marriage. It is such a strange feeling watching these bins he bought fill up with his things, seeing his closet almost empty....knowing that I won't be on the other end to help unpack and organize things in the new place.

 

 

The very first house we bought together...we moved into almost the exact same day 15 years ago. It was such an exciting, fun time for us. So much has happened, both good and bad, since then....and now this is it, the end - it's over. Sad, very sad..... 

 

 

 

 

by zuki  685 Posts 

Posted on 5/9/2009 12:15 PM
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I have never experienced what you are, but I am sure it has to be a very sad thing indeed. I know my being the one to leave at his request, taking nothing with me but a suitcase and important documents, it felt very weird to just have so little to unpack, lonely is closest I can come to that feeling.
     I think making as many changes as possible would be a good thing, painting, move the furniture to where you like it, finding more fun and exciting pictures to hang, out with the old, in with the new!
{{{HUGS}}} wishing you happiness in the new beginnings... ; )
by kdb   3175 Posts
Posted on 5/9/2009 1:04 PM
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It is sad. I felt sadness with each memory that I packed up and sent to my ex. But it also made me angry that I was once again doing the packing. In his sense of importance or shame he couldn't even get his things out of the house. But it still was sad.

Start making the house yours. Change the furniture around. Change up the rooms. I've been known to make the living room the dining room if it fits my needs. Will it hurt while you are making those changes. Hell yes, but it will be so much better for you than keeping old memories around.
by trisha9054   4967 Posts
Posted on 5/9/2009 12:26 PM
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