Chapter III--Breeding Lilacs out of the Dead Land

It's Done...I'm Divorced

Well, this insane drama has come to an end. It turns out my wife filed for divorce four weeks ago, but failed to get my address right, so I never received the papers...

I'm not going to bother describing the comedy of errors that led to me finally learning what so many others knew, but, it's over...

...Goodbye J. Next chapter.

by lenn 2653 Posts

Posted on 5/19/2009 5:14 PM

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Lenn, sorry man. You got sucker punched in the worst way possible. At least my ex stood up while she was dropping her little bombs. The only, if there is any? good thing. No more wondering. I hope your doing ok.

by Jamesalone 2778 Posts
Posted on 5/21/2009 9:13 AM

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I know the feeling....
One door closes but another will open Lenn. I promise.

Abrazos.

by vlady 2123 Posts
Posted on 5/21/2009 9:03 AM

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Oh my...this was def not what i expected your blog to read. Im so sorry. This seems so very unexpected. I wish I could do more for you, but just know that I am here. Im praying for you. *hugs*

Tell us how it all happened...

by rebec311 611 Posts
Posted on 5/20/2009 8:34 AM

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Oh my. I am so sorry that you had to find this out so suddenly. After all the hoops that you jumped through for her, a little bit more thoughtfulness and decency could be expected.

by meteor 488 Posts
Posted on 5/19/2009 10:52 PM

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Holy crap -she had your e-mail she couldn't have been courte...I'm not even going to finish that sentence...

Ok, so, how bad did she screw you when it came to belongings, assets etc?

by spaznskitz 7745 Posts
Posted on 5/19/2009 10:09 PM

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Lenn, you are still in my prayers my friend....Remember our phone conversation the last time we talked? You gave her the choice, she made it....It wasn't what you wanted her to choose but you gave her what she needed from you...There was nothing more you could do...I am upset on your behalf because I know that you love her...I hope to see some blogging here in the future that shows some real healing...I know this is the fartherest thing from your mind but you are a GOOD man and you have come so far...Please try to remember that...Great big hugs....

by militaryp 2952 Posts
Posted on 5/19/2009 9:37 PM

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(((((((hugs)))))))) I am so sorry..

You can truly say you gave your all to save your marriage.

Lenn, you are in my prayers.

Remember breathe

by sjg 1766 Posts
Posted on 5/19/2009 9:34 PM

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I've not known anyone that has tried any harder, and has as much patience as you have shown here. I wish I had some deep meaningful words of comfort, other than a simple, I am sorry. But just remember that you are not alone! {{{HUGS}}} K.

by kdb 3175 Posts
Posted on 5/19/2009 7:52 PM

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Wow.....that is not what I expected to hear!

Honey, I'm soooo sorry! I know it doesn't mean much right now, but your Cougar loves you! Take care. this doesn't have to be an ending, but a glorious beginning!

by angielou 1563 Posts
Posted on 5/19/2009 7:50 PM

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Oh, my god. I am so sorry. I am *so* sorry. *hugs you*

by felix7 463 Posts
Posted on 5/19/2009 7:20 PM

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Oh Lenn...what a crappy way to find out. I'm sorry that it seems nobody had the decency to give you a heads up that this was coming.

While I am sad for you that perhaps this was not the ending you were looking for, I am happy nonetheless that you have been given permission to leave limbo. That is a not a decent place to have spent so much time. It probably hardly seems like consolation now, but I hope that in relatively short time it will be. *hugs*

by BlazingSky 112 Posts
Posted on 5/19/2009 6:52 PM

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I'm sorry for you. I know you were hanging on for a sign from her that there was something left.

Your patience is admirable but now its time to protect yourself and move ahead on the track she has chosen for you both.

We're here to support you through all of this. Its going to be rough but you are not alone in this.

by timless 781 Posts
Posted on 5/19/2009 5:59 PM

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Wow, warning would have been nice. Right?

That would be communication. That's right, that's what failed in my marriage. Oh right, we weren't talking about my marriage. Sorry!

by purebredinip 1194 Posts
Posted on 5/19/2009 5:56 PM

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Hi Lenn, I am so so sorry that this is how it is ending. Maybe it is a good thing that now the ball is rolling towards an end???

Lenn, this is a start of a new chapter in your life. Hard way to start it, but I know everything will end up okay for you in your life!

Take Care.

by 123 1906 Posts
Posted on 5/19/2009 5:51 PM

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Sweeite......***Gentle Huggzzz*** for you. I am so sorry.......sigh*

by __STRIKER__ 1399 Posts
Posted on 5/19/2009 5:42 PM

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lenn, I'm so sorry. I'm sending warm fuzzies to you.

by Maleficent 877 Posts
Posted on 5/19/2009 5:36 PM

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I am so sorry to hear this lenn, it has been a while but I come on here to check on how many of you are doing. I was really holding out hope for you. You truly are a good person and if nothing, out of all of this there is one good thing, you have proven to me and countless others what a wonderful person you truly are!!!!

by baddlizz 256 Posts
Posted on 5/19/2009 5:29 PM

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Lenn, I am so sorry. I don't even know what to say, because after reading this, I'm just stunned.......

*Hugs*

by Kitty7470 2620 Posts
Posted on 5/19/2009 5:29 PM

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wow lenn, i am soo sorry sweetie. i wish you did not have to find out like this. it is not fair.. if you need to talk email ok..
please take care ok

((((HUGS))))

cherbear

by cherbear 5182 Posts
Posted on 5/19/2009 5:17 PM

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