A very stressful week  

Sorry that you are dealing with this, and her rubbing it in your face! Remember the sayings, "You reap what you sow," and "What goes around, comes around." Their time will come my friend. Let go of the bad, move forward and get on with your life, they are not worthy of your time and thoughts. You will survive this snuffy, take care of you! {{{HUGS}}} Karen

I know you hurt. I know you need to vent, go right ahead. Just don't let this consume you. Try to focus on moving on. I speak from experience. Worrying about what the ex did and did not do never got many anywhere. When I decided to move forward with my life, I began to heal and actually started to accomplish my goals. I am better off without her. From what you describe, I think you are much better off without her. As for the bragging, I take that as things may not be so wonderful in her paradise. But for whatever reason, she needs you to think things couldn't be better. Consider her motivation. Anyway, focus on you now. Do some things you have wanted to, but couldn't before. Hang in there and you'll make it through this. You're a farmer, that takes grit.