Am I missing something? Behaws is a perv and everyone on here is up in arms about safety but my MY STBX (who is like Behaws) is a good dad?  

Im confused. 
So now Beehaws is being called out as a perv and a manipulator who preys on emotionally vulnerable women here on 360. Everyone is up in arms worrying about men who prey on vulnerable women and internet safety.
I understand the concern. But, I have to say that adults, unlike children, have knowledge, resources and experiences to guide them and are capable of making choices. 
Every single woman on here should be making a concerted effort to keep herself safe from men like Behaws who prey on the vulnerable. As adults, that is our own responsibility.
So my question is posed to all of you from a common sense perspective. You all are making such a fuss about what he has done with concern to make sure members of 360 are safe from him. Does he have kids??? 
Are you at all concerned about any children in his sights and in his care?
A man like Behaws knows no boundaries, correct? Manipulation? Weak? Preying on the vulnerable? iSnt that what the concern is all about?
So why is it assumed that a man like Behaws is safe around children? Is a good dad? That this kind of manipulative, abusive behavior has no correlation to judgment and parenting?? 
My HB has done the exact same thing on AFF, CL and other sites. He has hit rock bottom when looking for models to make amateur porn. Guess what? He is now dating an 18 year old. She is the daughter of a family friend who we have known since she was 15. I keep wondering when he will hit his low and each time I think he has, he surprises me. 
Now that he is dating an 18 year old (he's 36) should I be concerned? My son is 16 years old. I have expressed concern that he may be ogling my son's teen  girl friends. Now, does my  concern have merit? Where are the boundaries? Is it ok bc the girl is 18 and is considered legal?
I have posted about my fears about my STBX. I have been fighting to keep my kids safe from his manipulative influence but have been chastised by many of you people (Spaz and Delia especially) who are now freaking out about Behaws. 
So, no one questions Behaws his ability to parent, his judgment is fine and he is a good dad despite what you now know?? Would you feel safe leaving your kids in Behaws care knowing what you know about him and his conduct towards women on this and other sites?
Im just curious.