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She's sick so hear i come

My stbx found out the other day that she had shingles. She asked me if i would bring here something to eat and some other things that she didn't have the energy to go and get.I did what she asked. i had to go over to get our son so it wasn't that i had to go out of my way to do this. But why did i do this. she is the one that wanted to seperate She felt that i wasn't doing enough in our relationship. I thought about telling her to call her bf and ask him to bring her something. but i'm not that mean (i think that they are not talking to eachother right now). i chose to kill her with kindness rather than pick a fight that wasn't worth fighting. and if i ever decied to pick a fight i don't want to be the only one throwing punches. she's sick and might not have the energy to say how she feels. Just before i left after making sure she was ok she asked me why i was being so nice, she didn't deserve people being nice to her after all shes done. i just told her that she has done more for me than i could ever repay and one nite of taking care of her was the least i could do.

why am i afraid to fight?

why am i afraid to burn bridges that i'm never going to go on again?

by Lanbo 13 Posts

Posted on 3/28/2009 7:48 PM

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I don't believe it's because your afraid to do those things, it's more like just the way you are, and being kind and willing to overlook things when need be, is a good virtue to have! Why kick a dog when it's down, so to speak... And like dad and cher said do it for the kids. I say when it's possible to keep peace, it's best to keep it, and if helping someone in need out isn't the best time, then I don't know what is! ; )

by kdb 3175 Posts
Posted on 3/28/2009 9:26 PM

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dads right, do it for the kids.. its nice to see that you can be civil to each other but just becareful too.. i used to be able to talk to my ex but now forget it.. good luck and take care.. keep posting and you will start to feel better about things and see things alot clearer.. we are here for you

by cherbear 5182 Posts
Posted on 3/28/2009 8:15 PM

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I did the same thing (killing her with kindness). If she is like my ex, she wont appreciate it. If she does, then you have accomplished something. For the sake of your kids, try to be ammicable. And don't forget, you are setting an example for your kids, so even if it hurts, you are investing in the children. And who knows, it might just soften her heart and one day may come back to you. Good luck.

by Dadof2 1465 Posts
Posted on 3/28/2009 8:10 PM

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