She did it again 

Well, she did it again.  She and #2 son are going to the college basketball game tomorrow.  We were sitting in the family room this afternoon, and she said to him, "I don't like driving up to the university.  Maybe we'll have Dad drop us off and pick us up."  Can you believe her?  She didn't ask me, and I was sitting right there!  No regard for me, or my time, or my feelings.  No respect at all.

Who the hell does she think she is?  Who does she think I am?  Where does she get off spending MY time?  It's not hers to spend.  She doesn't want to drive up to the university, but I can do it twice, and I don't even get to see the game.  She gets to have a good time, and I get to spend the afternoon being her chauffeur?  That is SO offensive.  When she and #2 go to the game, I plan to have a quiet afternoon alone.  But she thinks that she can just take that away from me without a second thought.  Clearly, I have no value to her, and my time is worth nothing.

So I voiced my...shall we say...reluctance to provide this service.  She told me that if I filled her car with gas, she would drive to the game.  What the hell!  Now I have to buy my way out of a situation that she had no right to put me in?  Since I had to go out anyway, I figured it wasn't a hill worth dying on, and it would be more time away from her.  How can she possibly think that I don't want out of this marriage?  Does she think that I enjoy being treated like this?  Do you think she would tolerate being treated the way she treats me?