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She Won And She Can Have Him 

After battling my ex for many years of his infidelity and cheating ways, the other woman has actually won him and that's good---she can have him. For all the times that I fought with him over her calls, for all the times that he called me names for asking him questions about her, all the precious time of my life that I wasted, it all came down to the final truth and she got him. I used to cry about it, scream bloody heck over it, call my momma up bawling my eyes out over him, and even times begged him to stop seeing her, but nothing and I do mean nothing I did ever mattered. Since his telling me the truth about him getting ready to move back in with her, I feel relieved. I got the honest to goodness truth that after all these years, he is not going to hide from me any longer. The other woman has prevailed once again and now she is going to find out how he really is, in the real world...you know, the one that you have to actually sit down and pay bills, deal with the problems of every day life, the day to day things that go on. Wait til she finds out that his sh.. really stinks after all. Cheers to me for finally being able to say this. What a great feeling I have now for his finally admitting the truth that I knew all along.
by deborah-trevino  1099 Posts 

Posted on 2/18/2009 9:46 PM
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happy birthday to you
by Gomezz   734 Posts
Posted on 3/3/2009 2:53 PM
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I am so happy for you!  Congratulations!   I hope I that I, too, will be feeling that strong really soon!
by NewFlight   18 Posts
Posted on 3/2/2009 3:57 PM
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I am so happy for you.  It is awesome that you are so courageous and strong.
by mrf   137 Posts
Posted on 2/19/2009 1:28 PM
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Congratulations!!!
by Tuff   82 Posts
Posted on 2/19/2009 1:41 AM
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That is wonderful. It is amazing when you look at behavior whether recent or long standing and wonder why you fight so hard to keep that in your life. It just kind of hits you one day and then WOW. You are healing. Good for you, no GREAT for you....(Big hugs)...
by militaryp   2952 Posts
Posted on 2/18/2009 11:45 PM
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Well that sure sounds like a load lifted off you! CHEERS!  ; )
by kdb   3175 Posts
Posted on 2/18/2009 11:31 PM
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What a leap ahead. You will be just fine.
by Dadof2   1465 Posts
Posted on 2/18/2009 11:22 PM
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Happy for you!
by 123   1906 Posts
Posted on 2/18/2009 11:18 PM
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I hope I can have the same attitude you have soon!
by __STRIKER__   1399 Posts
Posted on 2/18/2009 11:17 PM
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Good for you!
Stay strong you will make it through.
by sjg   1772 Posts
Posted on 2/18/2009 10:19 PM
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