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Interesting Observation about Infideltiy 

It iIt is intersting to see what has happened over the past 2 years.  My husband and I                                                                                                                                                                                     in It seems interesting to look at this new development.  My husband and I separated in 2007.  about 4 weeks later he started a relationship with a young woman 30 years younger than he is.  She was married and had 2 very small children (1 born just 3 months before this started).  For almost a year she lived separately from her husband/children but there was never any legal separation or divorce.  About a year later she moved back in with her husband and children.  Then, also continued openly seeing my stbx.  They continued to see each other for another 9 months despite the fact that she had moved back in with her husband.  Then there was some melodrama and they broke up.  So now she is moving across country with her husband to his next duty station.  

 

I wonder that my stbx couldn't see how distructive infidility was to our family?  So he thought it would be a good idea to promote the damage of infidelity in another marriage. 

 

It is so difficult to go forward with raising a family and having any sort of marriage once trust is gone.  It is so sad to think about such a young family getting off to such a bad start.

 

I think maybe infidelity is a contagious disease.  Looks like it spreads from one couple to another in the community.

 

 

by Kath52  27 Posts 

Posted on 11/7/2009 9:40 PM
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Ditto on kevinwo's statement. Yes my marriage ended, I initiated the divorce. My ex was also cheating and addicted to internet porn. It doesnt matter who you are or what you do. These parasites are so destructive to anything in their path. Remember, things didnt work out for them as it is called life! (Or karma).   You and I got the best end of the deal! It is hearbreaking, I know!  Dont you feel so much better now that they are no longer in your life?
by Dignified   163 Posts
Posted on 11/15/2009 6:04 PM
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I hope you read my story after reading this.  We do think alike.  I feel adultery is next to murder in the damage it causes.  I want to be encouraging to you.  The difficulties you had, strengthen the mind as labour does the body.  Believe me, you are better off, anyone who is addicted to porn is not worth much.  You have values as do I.  When one has values decisions are easier to make.  Success is never a result, it's always a goal, so we must continue to pursue reasonable goals.  Happiness isnot the absence of problems, but the ability to deal with them.  Even though we are middle aged, we do have desires for love and security.  It is good to be rid of ones who are unfaithfull to us.  We are better, stronger people than they.  Lets relish the thought and enjoy our Sunday.
by kevinwo   732 Posts
Posted on 11/7/2009 10:33 PM
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