He got served today 

I have quite the story. As my lawyer said it was classic "baby out of wed-lock married too soon" blah blah. I hate how the legal part of this gets so cold. I just honestly thought we had love and we could beat the odds. It hurts so much everyday my soon to be ex told me about 2 months ago he was unhappy and has been basically our entire marriage. Which was only 2 years and change. He has said so many mean things to me and has been trying to blame me for everything wrong in our time together. We just bought a house 7 months ago. And now he's pulling this on me. He made a friend at his newer job and has been talking to her and about her constantly. He got the job I believe in July and then in September he wants a break. Told me he doesn't want anyone else supposedly but told me we'll find me someone nice. WHAT?! AH! This past weekend was the last straw. He's been threatening me and nearly doing physical harm during our fighting but after talking to my relatives and friends I decided to move me and our 2 y/o daughter out and to my parents. Its been horrible still but better because its not a constant battle at home. I miss our home so much though and I really do still love and miss him too. But he is not being himself. I took my daughter to my aunts for the weekend and he didn't know where we were. All he did was call me once and text a few times. He only asked about my daughter one time since he last saw her almost a week ago. I moved our stuff out when he was at work but he has not been begging for her and me to return. He is not trying to see her. He complained that I took her away from him but he knows I would only come to my parents its 2 miles down the road. But he has not so much as even suggested he come see her or pick her up or talk to her on the phone. Its so upsetting. ah! Its just all so much to deal with. And he won't tell me why he is ruining our lives. I mean our house our family! For what? I don't understand. He says we didn't get a chance to live our lives we got married too fast. I completely disagree. It hurts a lot. I filed for divorce this week though. He refuses to try to work on anything and I really can't trust him at all. I just would give anything for this not to be happening. UGH!