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What a big baby 

Called my husband to see if he was bringing the boys home if I needed to pick them up.  Was trying to give him more time with them because if I pick them up he only gets about an hour to hour 1/2 with our oldest after school.  He's off today so he has all day with our 4 year old.  His response was that he preferred that I pick them because it was too hard on to bring them home.  It hurts him too bad.  Awww, poor baby (sarcasm).  He claims he's spending Sunday with them and taking the boys to get their hair cut.  We'll see how long he spends with them.  Must be nice to runaway and not have to worry about responsibilities. 

 

He needs to figure himself out soon.  This is turning into a load of crap.  He's still wearing his wedding ring, but doesn't communicate with me what his plans are.  Don't know if it's because he's unsure or if he's afraid.  Whatever it is, he needs to decide soon.

by bluedgragon  21 Posts 

Posted on 11/5/2009 10:51 AM
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My ex was wearing his wedding ring and so was his OW when they took the pix they put up on her myspace page. They had their hands up on top of one another, like you see in wedding pictures, showing off their wedding rings. Only problem is that my ex was still married to ME and his skank was still married to her stbx. What a load of crap. He also won't tell anyone that we are divorced unless someone sees him without his ring and asks. Otherwise, he leads people to still believe, 4 months later, that we are still together. Or he doesn't tell them we are divorced I should say. Complete denial. What an asshole.
by JFox624   149 Posts
Posted on 11/5/2009 12:07 PM
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Sounds as if you STBX has gotten used to the "confused victim" role.    Leaving the responsibility of child schedules and raising to you due to his "pain and confusion".

At some point he may just be waiting you out and hoping you will make the hard decisions while he waits in "pain".  This way he can fall back on the victim role to erase any guilt and responsibility he has in the demise of your marriage.

Only time will tell.   Hang in there and do what is right for you and your kids.    He will continue to profess he is doing the "best he can" under the circumstances.
by timless   781 Posts
Posted on 11/5/2009 11:49 AM
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