is love love or is love a believe 

Is love love? Or is love really something you make yourself believe in? By love, I mean it doesn't really have any explaination. You love someone, you know you love someone and that is it. By believe, you are telling yourself you love someone and you make yourself believe you love someone. If another person comes along, if you think hard enough, you can believe you love the other person instead. I really don't know. I personally can look pass someone's faults, because I tell myself I love her and because of love, I can change myself and accept her faults. If this is the case, am I simply conditioning myself by telling myself I love her? None of the person I dated was perfect. There were always something I don't like. I have always thought nobody is perfect. So you just have to learn to love that person. Now I am think more about it, it doesn't make much sense. If this is the case, I can basically love anyone and anyone can be together with anyone as long as each person keep thinking they love the others. So then it comes down to convenient, what can you accept vs what you can give up. A gold digger is not any worst than puppy love. Just the gold digger is shifting more from looks to monetary whereas puppy love is more for looks, excitement. If this is the case, all I have to do is to find someone else and make myself believe I no longer love my wife but this new person. Ah. Love Ps. Thanks everyone for your kinds comments.