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Happy Anniversary to me! 

Well, here it is one year later....another anniversary rolls around....and I am still not divorced. 

I finally received the info on my pension...so I have to contact him this week to get the final issue resolved and this paperwork signed.

Basically, I want him to sign off on it and just give me 20% of the 401k, which would cover what he owes for the 5 months of not paying his share of the mortgage this year and the 6 weeks that all his salary went into his new 401k by mistake!!


Tonight I feel like a little headbanging...


 Wish me luck!  
by zuki  685 Posts 

Posted on 10/6/2009 10:36 PM
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Thanks, guys...
LIP, you have him pegged! LOL

by zuki   685 Posts
Posted on 10/9/2009 7:50 AM
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Well Happy (un)anniversay Zuki.  :-)   Since you feel like a little headbanging why don't you go hang out at your stbx's pad - I'm sure they got the kegs and models and loud music all happening....(only prerequisite would be to have a midlife crisis and pretend to be 20yrs old...)

I hope all can be resolved quickly for you so you can begin your next phase of life without this hanging over you (I'm speaking to myself as well, ha).

Take care, xoxo
by lifeinpurgatory   1830 Posts
Posted on 10/7/2009 1:10 PM
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Best of luck, all of this is messed up.  Good people go bad and bad people just get worse.  Keep looking forward and doing what you can to get through this.  Be well.
by Jamesalone   2778 Posts
Posted on 10/6/2009 10:49 PM
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