Everything is changing. Snowballing out of control 

Hi DK -

I am sad that you were disappointed in my post and felt I was being judgemental.  I did advise those who do not want SnS to post here not to answer her blog. 

Just because one is a divorce coach does not mean they can judge a situation and tell others not to speak about it.

You are correct.  Everyone has the right to speak about whatever they wish.  I was concerned that the the posts were fake, since the name smartnsexy  also happens to be the name of several porn sites. 

It is apparent that I have disappointed both you and the site in general.  For that I do apologize.

Best -
Lisa

I have always enjoyed reading various posts on d360.  I always find it interesting that there are indeed two sides to every story and that we never know what goes on behind closed doors.  No marriage falls apart because of just one party.  Yes, often one party takes things to places we might not all agree they should go.  And yes there always seem to be outsiders willing to step right in. That has been going on since the beginning of time!  I think we all live our lives from our own perspective, and I for one enjoy that we have this site to vent freely and seek others thoughts.  I DO NOT however enjoy hearing a Divorce Coach representing d360 be so judgemental and advising people to not talk to somebody.  That disturbs me.  Just because one is a divorce coach does not mean they can judge a situation and tell others not to speak about it.  That is supposed to be the whole point of this site.  I am very disappointed.  Very.  I hope all will continue to speak to smartnsexy and everyone else on this site.  We may not always agree.
But that's okay, live and learn, and benefit from others' experience.  That is what we are here for.  My thoughts are.....sometimes it takes the "affair" to finally make people take action they should have taken years ago.  Is it the best way to handle it?  Probably not.  But sometimes it might take some wrong action to eventually right everything. Nobody, and I mean nobody is perfect. Just my two cents.

very controversial and difficult to read, true.

but d360 welcomes all points of view....all circumstances related to divorce.....

we all want to learn.  we all want to understand better.  knowledge is power.

please, continue to share your viewpoint....and please everyone else, continue to value the opposing view or beliefs.....something comes out of it.  some knowledge, some growth....for you...for others.

Hi SNS-

I see you have returned to this site to taunt the participants once again.  How appropriate to do so on Halloween... 

I  am a relationship counselor and divorce coach here on D360. 

I have some advice for the participants of this site once again....  Stop responding to SnS's posts. 

Remember, negative attention is better than none.  If you don't want these posts here, then don't comment. 

No one wants to be ignored.  It takes self control not to post.  Exercise your self control and ignore this thread and you will find that there will be few if any posts in the future.  It worked for three months, it will work again.

Remember:  Negative attention is better than none.  Lets work together and give this blogger what they deserve...  none.

Best -
Lisa

I'm confused.  How else did you expect this to play out?

I too hope his wife and children find happiness.  They are owed that at the very least.

Can you fill me in..I feel I am missing the whole story..are you the o/w or wife??  I am not hear to downgrade you..what is changing and snowballing out of control??