SLOWLY MOVING ON 

Hello DFamily,

Hoping that everyday things get a little better than the last. A friend told me if you have one foot in the past and one in the future, then you are pissing on today. So make it count for you.

So what our beloved D360 site be if we didn't have wonderful stories to tell about the exhausting process that is divorce and the turmoil "love" causes".

My EX is retarded. Sorry if the term offended anyone but it's all i can come up with that fits the situation. He does not like a couple that I am friends with. Rather our kids play pee wee FB together and alot of us parents are friends and we hang out, b-day parties, day trips etc. He asked me what my youngest was doing for Halloween. I informed him that he would be attending the bday party of "this couple's" child and then trick or treating afterward. Well you thought the world exploded because all I heard was a popping sound and he was yelling. " I told you I dont want him at their house". I informed my ex that when the children are with me on my weekends he can not dictate to me where I can or can not take them. These people have done nothing to him. He doesnt even really know them. I do.  He then made some further empty threats about pulling the kids out of FB etc. I had to then inform him again that I am the ultimate decision maker in where the kids partake of extra curricular activities. He should have read his paperwork a lot closer. I have ultimate say in religion choice, education, and a whole bunch of other stuff whether he and I agree or not. I called my attorney to double check some stuff and he said the ex could certainly try and take me back to court to amend the parenting plan but can not add anything to the effect of what friends I can have around the children especially if I am present with them.

I mean the man is grasping at straws here. Still trying to control my every move. It feels like its going to take forever to get to feeling like i'm living a life. The drama just doesnt seem to stop.