What to do when the love is gone. 

benbettor i coul not do this if i moved out i need to see my kids every day

oldmaid,  you know i think i am done if maybe i saw a little light something to make me want to keep fighting but so far i see nothing, but my own dreams
thanks

krys how do i get in touch with him, lol i was told that this is my fault that i made my bed now i need to le in it. why does love stink.

gregory1969 i stay because i wanted to be a example for my kids and for the love of me i do not know why but i love this women, thaks for posting

Okay, remember when you said "in good times and in bad?" This is a bad one. Have you told your wife how you feel. Have you suggested marriage counceling? You are right. Your girls need to look up to you. So before you do anything negative, do everything you can to turn this marriage around.  Its a tough job being married. You sound like you have lost your way. What is bothering your wife?  Have you apologized for the mistakes you said you have made? Take her out dancing. Tell her how much you want her to be happy again. Tell her how unhappy you are. Give her some time. Send her flowers. Be that positive example for your girls. In the end if things don't work out, your kids will respect you for trying.

i am in your same shoes exept i have left the home and now want her back. boy is it painful. growing though and working on me. dont think i could really do that if we were still living together. i wish i could take my own advice as easily as i give it  but this is the hardest thing we will every do. get out and work on yourself. if you get better and she dont then u are in a better place. if u get better and she gets better and u two may grow back together and be better people together. if not u still arer better. at least thats what ive been told and am struggling to do so i can give my wife SPACE. wish i could do as i say with more confidance. but it makes perfect sence.
goodluck & ive,
benbettor

God i swaer your wife and my husband should meet up, they would be the match made in hell...they would deserve each other!!

Get out. Leave that woman. Why go through that and put yourself in depression? If she is acting like that then chances are she is popping someone else. Get out of that relationship and take a step back and focus on what you think the bad choices are for your life. Take those bad choices and make them right as much as you possibly can. Then learn from this tragedy in your life and grow into the kind of  man you need to be and go find peace in your life. Good Luck and God Bless- Greg