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Was it something I said? 

Hmmm....stbxh seems to have vanished!

Two weeks ago started get phone calls from his credit card co about an important issue (gee, I wonder what that could be?). So I was nice, took the phone number and texted the message to him. No response.

Then the car insurance quote came in with his vehicle still on it! He purchased a new vehicle in July and got his own insurance. I should have gotten an insurance rebate for the vehicle/plates he surrendered. Seems he never submitted the DMV surrender paperwork to the insurance co after he bought his new vehicle and got new plates....this is a major problem! I can't get a new quote until this paperwork is submitted!!!!

So...I texted him to let him know there was a car insurance issue that I needed to get resolved quickly and to please check his email as I was sending him the details. Again, no response.

I waited a few days and checked with the insurance co....they never heard from him after I sent the messages.  I asked if they would mind calling him about it. They did....he never responded to them either.

 Hmmmm.....we are fairly amicable...and he has always replied to the few messages I have sent since he moved out. So I am not sure why no reply to these recent messages.  

So I called his sis to chat and non-chalantly ask if he has changed his cell number or email....she says no...but that she emailed him recently and got no reply either. She knew he was traveling on business a lot lately.....but hey, that never stopped him from communicating with everyone and anyone...at anytime...except on the plane, of course. Said she would let him know I need to speak with him if she is able to reach him.......

I need to settle this current issue and the one remaining financial issue so we can submit the paperwork and get this divorce finalized....and now he seems to be avoiding me! Why? Because once again he has screwed things up that affect me????? So...make it right then....at least return my message!


Aargghhhhhh.......

by zuki  685 Posts 

Posted on 10/13/2009 8:27 PM
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My ex does the same thing so I did email him and said just this I am going to get an attorney then you can pay more fees and court cost. He emailed me back and said he did not know what to do! He will have to learn real quick.
by sjg   1766 Posts
Posted on 10/13/2009 9:08 PM
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My ex was very proficient at avoiding any contact until it was in her favor, it is just part of the process.  Hang in there and keep it positive.  Best of luck as you progress through the process.
by Jamesalone   2776 Posts
Posted on 10/13/2009 9:02 PM
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