My husband works all week, I work too but fewer hours. I usually do a lot of things around the house during the day and I work evenings. On the week ends I like to have my spouse do somethings around the house that need repair, upgrading and etc. When I ask him he says, "maybe this week end", but this week end comes and goes. Next weekend comes and goes.
Often he likes to just relax on the week ends, and does not like to work on too much. I most often do all the painting, grout baseboards and try to do what I can. I do all the yard work also except he does cut the grass. Our house is older so needs certain repairs and up keep.
I have suggested that we get a handy man, which I have done numberous occasions but my husband doesn't like to do this either.
My husband does not like to pay someone to do things that we can do ourselves but a lot of things drag on longer then they should. We have had numberous fights about this. It seems like he doesn't want to do the things, it's always later or there is some excuse, but yet he does not what to pay I someone else to do it either.
What are your ideas on this issue.........help
I feel like he doesn't care what I want or when I'd like to get it done, I have been trying to resolve this issue with him for many years now and it never seems to get resolved.
It seems like he is not bothered only when I ask him to do things he gets angry and defensive.