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The more you have it, the more you want it?

If those of you haven't figured out what I'm talking about, its sex. I have heard multiple people in different areas say that the more sex you have, the more sex you want. Also, when someone has a lot of sex, they submit some sort of aura or sent that makes them more desirable. Is that true? I have never lacked in the desire for sex, although time and exhaustion have played a factor over actually following thru with the pursuit on occasion. Is it true that a woman hits her sexual peek at 40 and a man at 18? That doesn’t seem fair. Almost like the Universe has played a practical joke on us all. I believe that some people are born more sexual that others. Men don’t corner the market in this arena. Women can be just as sexual.

If you are in a relationship and find yourself starved for affection, here are some pointers to help get your significant other in the mood:

Baby your partner for a while. Sometimes all women really need is to feel loved and desired and its no different for men.

Offer her/him a quick massage, nothing fancy or too long, just a brief rub down. It’s amazing how erotic that can become.Don’t forget the romance. Who cares if you've been together forever why should that change anything?

Wear something that makes you feel sexy...this is for guys too. And women love a man that smells good. That’s a total turn on for me. Feeling sexy will make you want to have sex. You can go from a lady that feels bleak, to a freak in the sheets.

And to those who of you who are the one with the lack of desire. I suggest doing it even if you don’t want to. I know that’s hard and sometimes really out of the question but in the end, you really will feel better. Not to mention, it brings you closer together.

Sex isn’t supposed to be a chore, it was designed as a win/win situation. Of course, that can all depend on your partner too. Just have fun with it and remember to think about your partner on a daily basis. What can you do to show them you care? Let them know you want them. A woman that feels sexy will be sexy, with an emphasis on the SEX part. Remember that.

by Lori-Woodall 923 Posts

Posted on 1/19/2009 7:45 PM

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Touche'

by Lori-Woodall 923 Posts
Posted on 2/4/2009 9:22 PM

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I think variety is very important part of "it". For me it is not usually about just having an orgasm. Sometimes it is but mostly I want rewarding fullfiling experiences.

by Greatdad 555 Posts
Posted on 1/30/2009 8:07 PM

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LOL...Im sure women will love you know matter what your name is.....

And, to answer your other question......I think that all depends on the person. I had sex with my first husband every day for the first 5 years...sometimes we did new things but usually it was all about the hunger for "it"....as long as I have an orgasm, I dont care how "it" happens:)

by Lori-Woodall 923 Posts
Posted on 1/30/2009 7:51 PM

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Okay, Lori, here's an interesting follow-up question.

The more you have it, the more you want it...and we know what "it" is...but do you want more of the same "it", or does having more of "it" make you want a different "it", or a more creative or exciting "it", or a bigger "it"? Does having more of "it" lead to boredom, and a desire for more variety?

I'm definitely NOT talking about a desire for a different partner, which would lead to cheating. Rather, I'm wondering if more sex would lead to a desire for more varied sex...different positions, venues, games, toys, fetishes. Or is more of the same just as satisfying?

So what do you all think? I'm pretty sure that you've all had more sex than I have over the past 30 years. (And yes, I'm including those in the 20-29 age group.) What does your experience tell you? We could turn this into a reseaarch project.

by 2much42long 3031 Posts
Posted on 1/29/2009 11:41 AM

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If I change my name to Bob, will women love me? Well, maybe...but will they respect me in the morning? ;)

by 2much42long 3031 Posts
Posted on 1/28/2009 2:32 PM

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Well, everyone needs to do what makes them happy. Thats why so many women on here love BOB...at least he is dependable!

by Lori-Woodall 923 Posts
Posted on 1/22/2009 8:27 PM

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Unfortunatley, I have tried them all. If it's a no go, it's a no go. I gave up trying. I am a sex starved human being, I don't care what his problems are anymore, I'm in it for myself. No matter how selfish that sounds.
Gotto go

by gottogo 14 Posts
Posted on 1/21/2009 9:23 PM

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http://singleparentsunite.blogspot.com/

by Lori-Woodall 923 Posts
Posted on 1/21/2009 9:08 PM

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