A leopard doesn't change his spots 

I try to take pleasure in the few places I can get it. Like finding out that my STBX's mistress has...

• co-signed his note for his attorney. If he doesn't pay she has to.
• let him live with her for free since June
• is paying for his medical bills while he's buying music, movies and software for his new iPhone
• has lent him $2,000 for him to pay for daycare
• has bought him presents
• has paid for most of their dates, hotel rooms, plane tickets, etc

ROTFL

She makes less than me and has two children. I only have one and can't barely support myself and my son. Plus, I'm not with a man who has to pay out child support and 1/2 of daycare. Of course he's not going to have much money after those two bills. LOL.

Seriously! This is a woman who blames me for our financial mess and swore she'd never let a man do that to her! Again...ROTHFL.

Karma baby...KARMA!!!

I tell my ex-sis-in-law about this (my STBX husband's brother's ex-wife) She and I are great buddies now since we were married to brothers who are very much like each other. She couldn't control her ex-husband's spending either. It's a family trait - reckless spending. She and I just laugh our asses off at this woman who thinks she's smarter than either of us and how she won't make the same mistakes we made. She made the mistake from day one. From day one she footed the bill for the affair. Now she's trying to figure out how to keep her new family afloat on her salary alone because my STBX, who makes very good money, doesn't have any money at the end of the week to pay her rent or anything. 

This mistress is now bringing me so much happiness that I almost want to invite her over for tea and crumpets when she's homeless because of my STBX, and just let her know that there are no hard feelings. She got what she wanted so badly and in the process freed me from being in her position when I'm older. More tea honey? ROTFL