I'm being tested to see if I'm REALLY done! 

So I posted this entry yesterday about when a woman is done she's done.  And I've had the good fortune of finally getting there with my ex-husband.  It took awhile.  However my most recent relationship is the one that I'm two years out of and it has taken me until now to really feel like I'm done.  It was a long distance relationship, so you would think it would have been easy.  So I post the entry and today I find out he's coming to my town to give a presentation THIS WEEK!  (Nothing like the universe immediately testing you to see if you really mean it!) He asked if he could stay and maybe we could have dinner or something. I said yes......but I'm telling you, I really am done.  There is nothing he can say that is going to make it any different.  I will be proud to report back at the end of the week that even with a nice dinner and bottle of wine, I'm still going to be done.  Just wait and see!