My ex and I separated in April 2005. We were barely married a week before he decided that we got married too young (at 23) and started acting really different. After living with each other for 6 months he told me he wanted a divorce. I'm not a huge fan of bashing him so I'll try to hold it down, but I just don't get that after not wanting to be with me for all this time why he just won't file the paperwork.
I know at first he delayed the divorce because the military paid him extra and gave him a housing allowance. But he's out now and it's been almost a year and I'm pretty sure his work isn't paying him extra for him being married. So why won't he just divorce me already?
He has a new life on the other coast, a girlfriend, and 2 new vehicles. As far as I'm concerned he lives a happy life. So why tell me that as far as he's concerned we're not even legally separated? It makes no sense. He asked for the divorce, I just want some peace of mind, nothing more, well other than the divorce he asked for.
I guess he figures him procrastinating doesn't hurt anyone, but it does, it hurts me.