It started with an e-mail this morning telling me that he wants her for Thanksgiving. Ummmm, no, our court order doesn't say he gets her on holidays. And she has rehearsals that weekend. Then he demanded that I propose a shared vacation schedule. I have had full legal custody for the past 11 years. Our agreement says he has 1 supervised weekend a month with her. I have let him spend lots more time with her than that, including sending her to see him, letting him stay with her at my house when I am away and letting him take her to his family on his visitation weekends.
When I said that he should let me know when he wants to see her and I will talk to our daughter about it, he started threatening me. I am sick of being bullied by him. I am sick of him making demands on me but when I ask him to help pay for things for her, he always goes back to the court order and how he isn't obligated to pay for things. Well, I'm not obligated to give him any additional visitation. Still, I tried to be reasonable and reiterated that he should let me know what he had in mind.
I had a total melt down today. I just sat in my car crying. Between the break up with my boyfriend, dealing with a surly teenager and dealing with a nasty ex husband, I am at my wit's end.