The
US Census Bureau says that cohabitation is up almost 1,000 percent from the
sixties. That's not really
shocking. There was still the stigma of
"shacking up" back then. Now
cohabitation is a widely accepted way for couples to be together without
marriage. What is surprising, is a new
report from Rutgers, they report cohabitation is up among the divorced.
The
report says that most people coming out of divorce don't want to remarry. Many people feel like they were burned by
marriage once, and don't want to do it again.
Cohabitation allows them to avoid being lonely, without the legal mire
to deal with if things go wrong.
Of
course there is a downside to cohabitation.
There aren't the financial bonuses provided by the government, not to
mention retirement plans and health insurance benefits. Also because your partner can always bail
out, it leaves you always on guard.
Trust
is easier given in marriage. Once it's
broken, it's hard to trust again, but it's that trust that allows us to be free
in a relationship.
Source:
www.theolympian.com