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GAMES 

Dear EX,     I can’t believe you, you are such a two faced bastard and I would strongly advise you to get an attorney because I am tired of the games you and your fiancé play.   NO MORE I’m done with it-you have 19 months to settle with me on the house and I can guarantee I am done being nice with you.   You have lied to me on more than one occasion and made me seem like a bad person but in fact we know the truth don’t we C.   You did in fact smoke weed in the house with our child and I have proof, you do have two dui’s on your driving record.   You put a gun in our daughter’s hand allowing her to pull the trigger and yes I have proof   The mediation called for $709.00 a month you keep A*****covered on the insurance and actually the latch key cost is suppose to be 80% & 20%   The cost of keeping OUR daughter on my insurance for the last year and ½ @ $22.00 a month that comes to be about 396.00 that you owe me.   Visitation will be revised, A***** will no longer be spending the night or your fiancé moves out with her son.  I didn’t think It would come to this but you have left me no other choice.   You want to say that it is me well buddy actually it is her and her mind games   OUR daughter is not to have make up on at 6 years old and smell of your girlfriend because she has decided that she wants to play mind games.   She is not to tell OUR daughter what to do and yes I heard her outside of McDonalds telling her to give you a hug (that is not her place)   Our daughter is OUR daughter and that matter stays between you and I and not your fiancé and all maters concerning our daughter stays between you and I.  If you so choose to tell your Fiancé about it later then that is your right but while you and I are discussing that matter then stop giving the phone to me when it is quiet apparent I have nothing to say to her.   You two can call me whatever you like as you have done so in the past, your physical threats also will stop.   You two can keep your own mess and leave OUR daughter out of it!!   It is your responsibility to call your daughter just like I have to call her to speak to her when she is over there; it is not my responsibility to have to call so you can speak to OUR daughter.   Your Fiancé has texted me about 150x’s that comes to @ 0.5 cents $7.50 you owe me $30.00 for the funeral clothes for your fathers funeral that I bought for OUR daughter.     Now if you want to keep being petty then go ahead, like you said you will f********* break me.
by Zoekinns  4 Posts 

Posted on 8/12/2008 10:36 AM
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ok. this is an angry letter. believe me, i've been there.  many times over. 

i would edit this down to what you really want ...which i think is 'look, we are the parents to x, let's keep this as friendly and civil as possible for all of our benefits.  please ask x to stop sending me text messages.  and please work with me on raising our daughter.  we both love her and want only the best for her.  i wish things were not hostile between us and i hope we can find a way to turn things around here. i'm willing to try, will you?"

i know, i know..you think that sounds wimpy.  but this is not a race.  it's a marathon.  you are in this for a very, very long time. it is so much better to find a way to work together.  fighting like this will drive all of you mad.

trust me. i've done the evil letters and lawyer threats and it just made things worse.  killing with kindness is worth a try.
by paula1   12664 Posts
Posted on 8/12/2008 10:43 AM
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