My Divorce
Ok, this is gonna take a few minutes. My husband and me got married kinda young. Things were great, when we first got together he got off drugs and alcohol cause he said he wanted to show me he loved me. Well after 4 months I got pregnant (he refused to use condoms.) Than everything changed. We fought...he drank...constantly. He started "losing" his pay checks. Till finally it came to a boiling point. Things got better when I had my child. Than less than two weeks after he was born my husband begins to stay gone. So one night while he was at a party I called him. He swore he was at his sisters. So we go to the sisters house and he's not there. So I take the car and leave. A few hours later he calls back. He finally figures out I took the car, I told him I didn't think it was gonna work out...cussing from his side...I'll send you the divorce papers, than I hang up. Less than a few months he has a girl pregnant. Or at least she says she's pregnant. False alarm. Than a few months later...shes pregnant again. Yea... Finally the trouble starts. He never visits his child. Never calls, never shows up, never makes an effort. Out of the blue one day his gf calls and tells me I can drop off some stuff to her. 3 hours later they call cussing me saying he went to jail and they know I called...problem is I didn't call. So now I'm the bad guy. Than I get all these emails saying that I posted false info about him on some personal website or something??? Weird. I've never done anything to him yet I'm the villian? Than she starts on MY son. She starts telling people that he's not my husbands...or tries to. I nipped that in the bud quick. Than all these pics of my son end up on her webpages calling him HER son....which I don't mind except she treats him like a decease when shes around him. Now she constantly harrasses me...she called a friend of mine who watches my child sometimes trying to convince her to drop my son off at my ex's house without telling me. He has no visitation. Because he refused a drug test...but she tells everyone that I had him arrested on visitation day...which is stupid cause if he was arrested than they would of taken him to the court hearing. Now I have to deal with this slander 24/7. Not only does she use my ex against me now she makes false websites with my name and my sons name on them. Which is pissing me off!!! No one messes with my CHILD! I'm so sick of her lying face! I dont know what to do. Now I found out they both are ate up with hepititis...ewwww...I've been checked since then and I'm clean. Thank god. Well sorry for the vent I just needed to say something.