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Still No Visits For Our Child 

I don't know what this man is thinking, but we still haven't gotten a visit from him for our daughter. She remains upset over the situation and even though I have thoroughly explained that he needs to make some-what regular visits, he still doesn't. I don't see what the excuse is this time. First it was that he was working so much and now, it can't be that because he had an accident and broke his rib and forearm due to a fall and has been out of work for nearly 4 months now. Yes, he's already gone back to work, but he said there isn't very much work right now.....not only are we suffering from no child support, but no visits either. If he isn't working much, then why doesn't he come to see her? She hears from him on text messages every once in a while, but it's just not fair. I have explained to her that even though he doesn't come, he still loves her. He just has other issues on his mind right now. That still doesn't help her much. She is growing up and he's missing that. What a pity....and to think, it's all because of his cheating. Why did it have to be this way?
by deborah-trevino  1099 Posts 

Posted on 3/27/2008 6:31 AM
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MEN CAN BE THE MOST IDIOTIC PEOPLE!!MY EX DID THE SAME THING WHEN WE FIRST SEPERATED, ONLY BECAUSE HE KNEW THAT IT BOTHERED, AND HURT ME THAT HE DIDN'T VISIT OUR DAUGHTER ON A REGULAR BASIS. AND WHEN SOME PEOPLE ARE HURTING; WHICH HE MAY BE FROM THE SEPERATION AND MABEY THIS IS THE ONLY WAY THAT HE BELIEVES HE CAN HURT YOU BACK:THROUGH YOUR CHILD. AS SELFISH AS IT IS THE BEST THING YOU CAN DO IS LET HIM MAKE THE MISTAKE WITHOUT LETTING HIM KNOW THAT IT BOTHERS YOU. IN THE END IT IS HIS LOSS. TRY TO ENFORCE TO YOUR DAUGHTER THAT SHE IS LOVED VERY MUCH AND NOT TO LET SOMEONE ELSES NEGATIVE CHOICES CONTROL HER LIFE.GOOD LUCK!!!ODDS ARE HE'LL COME AROUND WHEN "HE" FEELS BETTER
by gg   18 Posts
Posted on 4/4/2008 2:01 PM
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