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Great Site, Great People, Great Community... 

Great site... Great People... Great Community... Period...

 

The way I look at the site is as follows:

 

We...

 

1. ...discover the site...

2. ...discover the community and members herein...

3. ...discover how similar the stories really, really are...

4. ...discover our “selves”; and, accordingly, like or dislike what we discover of our “selves”...

5. ...learn how to interact with others as we move throughout these discoveries along with all of the ups and downs...

6. ...learn to get past our own personal issues...

7. ...learn from others and to help others...

8. ...grow into, or out of, the need to help our selves and others...

9. ...grow into a new "self" that moves on towards other avenues in our lives along with others...

10. ...leave altogether in order to diminish the normal growth, development, or progress of "...new self..."; and, besides, others do need to step up in their own participation to help themselves along with others...

 

We do take our journey in different ways; and, more importantly, we recognize that each and every one is an individual that is hurting in the beginning but takes a small part of this community within our hearts with each step along a new walk in life... This community has a life by design and grows by the inner workings of the members that may come and go; although, more importantly, it is the sharing that occurs within the walls of this site, to be shared with others that are unaware, ultimately expanding the impact we can make once we think we are able to leave on our own...

 

May God Bless each and every one of you as you find your road towards a better place...

by bp  1239 Posts 

Posted on 12/5/2008 2:29 PM
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This is fabulous and should be posted on the Home/Front page to explain what we are doing here.
This has been a blessing because of everything you wrote.

Our road and journey to a better place. Thank you for these words of wisdom and for writing this.
by lgoodgal   1036 Posts
Posted on 12/16/2008 2:26 PM
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Thank you for that post, so very true, and I too am grateful for everyone here! Wish I had that magic wand to make everyone's hurt go away!
by kdb   3175 Posts
Posted on 12/6/2008 4:46 PM
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You are right, this site grows because of all the people that are hurting and need it.  And that is great, because it's here. 
My wish and prayer is that no one ever needs this site.
by Jamesalone   2778 Posts
Posted on 12/6/2008 12:18 AM
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Very upbeat -- thanks
by scared27years   283 Posts
Posted on 12/5/2008 11:59 PM
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I would be lost without being able to share my pain and knowledge with others.  This site has been a true blessing. 
Thank you to all that have accepted me and benefitted from my knowledge.  I only hope that I can make a difference in more peoples' lives than have touched mine here.
by DJPO   599 Posts
Posted on 12/5/2008 10:08 PM
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great post, and i love this site. i know that you all help me more than you know.

cherbear
by cherbear   5182 Posts
Posted on 12/5/2008 8:59 PM
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Ditto
by militaryp   2952 Posts
Posted on 12/5/2008 8:56 PM
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Thanks for this lovely post.
by Kitty7470   2621 Posts
Posted on 12/5/2008 5:31 PM
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Awesome! I have found how accepting and empathetic people are with each other. You are mean and snap at people...and we are like a family! We know it's just because we are going through something and cut each other slack. The next day everyone is cheery again!
by Jams   236 Posts
Posted on 12/5/2008 3:31 PM
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This is a great post that I hope new people will read. It will help them understand the steps they will encounter.
by falcon81   377 Posts
Posted on 12/5/2008 3:17 PM
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Very well put and inspirational. We all need a big bulletin board so we can go to it and read these words. They are in a since kind of like the commandments of life. Something we should all live by and except as a way of life. You have a wonderful heart bp. You have always been able to reach out and help others. This community has benefitted by having you around.
by bleedinglovepain   760 Posts
Posted on 12/5/2008 3:10 PM
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Well put.  I know that it's helped me and I am trying to help others as well.  Do unto others.
by DJPO   599 Posts
Posted on 12/5/2008 2:54 PM
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Great Post BP...  You have always been a man of great words...  But this was a wonderful thing to read, it was never truth written any better then this one.....  I have to agree with everything you wrote and then some....
by Departed   571 Posts
Posted on 12/5/2008 2:42 PM
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You do have a way with words. Well said
by trisha9054   4967 Posts
Posted on 12/5/2008 2:38 PM
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well said! couldn't agree with you more.
by paula1   12664 Posts
Posted on 12/5/2008 2:32 PM
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