divorce360.com provides help, advice and community for people
contemplating, going through or recovering from divorce and the issues around it,
including separation, divorce laws, spousal support and emotional issues.

profile
Community  :: tinytinker's Stuff  :: tinytinker's Blog

  click here 
Personal Tags
ADVERTISING PARTNERS


Blogs
You can search for Blogs by tag here:


Invite Others
Invite friends and family to join you on d360! - Click here

our tapes are on the web 

Ok here's what happen. My guy co worker told me that he seen my sex tapes on the internet. I thought he was full of it ntil he described a scare that I have in a part of my body that you can't see unless you seen me nake. So I was shocked and so I had him show me on the web where he found my sex tapes. Sure as hell, there I was with my husband and another person going at it. He showed me a few tapes of me and my husband having sex. I was pissed and nailed my husband when I got home. He said ye he put them on the web becuase he thought he it would be cool for the whole world to see us doing it. That's bull, we both agreed a year ago when we started taping our sex lifes that we would keep the tapes at home and only for us to look at. we also make sure that anyone who we had sex with new that we tape our sex and the tapes are for us only. I asked him if he got paid for the tapes on the web and he didn't, just did it for the heck of it. Ye, not I have at least one co work who I'm sure told others seeing me have sex with my husband and other people. Just what I wanted every see what and who I do in the bed room and having horny co working getting turned on wanting to do me or my husband. What an asshole. I made him leave and go stay at a buddies while I figure out what I want to do. I love him and we don't love anyone we let join in so it's just he went agist what we agreed to and now i got to deal with it at work. I did ask him before and after he left if he just put the tapes of me having sex with him and others on the web or if he also put him gay group shit to. He says he only put a few tapes up there and can't remember what was on them. That's bull. I looked and the all show me with him other guys and women but none sure him give and taking it from guys. I told him to fix what he did or put his gay sex tapes up there to. So far he hasn't done neither so he screwed me like this and I ll screw him back. I'll divorce his butt and have his gay tapes come out in the open, hell mine already are. He gots to jan 1 to fix it, place his g tapes on the web or we are divorcing and his tapes will be see by everyone anyways. I am easy going but this was wrong and now I got people seeing the tapes want to do me and my husband. I'm not that easy going.
by TinyTinker  3 Posts 

Posted on 12/3/2008 2:15 AM
Get AlertsGet Alerts!
Sent to Friendsend to friend
0

Tags:
  |  Blog posts by TinyTinker  |  Next Post >>


Comments for "our tapes are on the web"  (6) (You must be logged in to answer)




Guess some people have nothing else better to do than to surf the internet for porn....!!! I feel for you....I would be mortified. Good Luck with whatever you decide to do. My jerk of a hubby had a 3some  on Mother's Day (heartbreaking to me) with a couple he found on an adult web site and he let them tape it...glad to see you are from FL and not OR...lol...This is something i dont think i will ever be able to truely forgive him for...Im not a swinger... and he has issues.
by monica1970   20 Posts
Posted on 12/3/2008 8:20 PM
0





How does it go, sing it for us...
by Animator   772 Posts
Posted on 12/3/2008 1:31 PM
0





Why am I suddenly hearing theme music to the movie The General's Daughter?
by delia_M   2861 Posts
Posted on 12/3/2008 10:31 AM
0





Wow.  Legally, this could be a tough one.  All you have is a verbal agreement with your husband that the tapes would be used for home use and not to be distributed...it's marital property and he can do with it as he sees fit...divorce grounds, sure, but I'm not sure if you have any recourse other than that to get the tapes off the website...or even if that bell can even be unrung.  The people who might have more of a leg to stand on are your sex partners...did they agree to being taped and sign a release?  If not, then they may be able to sue civilly...have the outraged ones contact an attorney...maybe they can get a cease and dessist order agains the web-sites.

Yeah, I would definately be contacting an attorney to discuss your options.  I wouldn't think you can claim infidelity as you both were aware and had consent from eachother to engage in sexual activity with other people, so I'm not quite sure what your recourse would be.  You may have to chalk this one up to "REALLY BAD IDEA" for future reference, either with your husband if the marriage lasts or for whomever you get with in the future.  Good rule of thumb...if you don't want it out there in public, don't tape it.  The truth is that you never know when your relationship or marriage might go south, or if you have an idiot for a spouse that thinks putting your sex acts for all to see on the internet might be "fun."  So, whether or not you're a victim of vindictiveness, idiocy, or crime (tapes get stolen), it's just really not a good idea to put your sex acts on tape if you don't want it on the internet.

I wish you luck in all this...sounds like you need it.
by BlueB   2982 Posts
Posted on 12/3/2008 9:08 AM
0





I think this would be a good question for Spaz.

You need to research and find out what you can do and cannot do legally in regards to this.

What he did was screwed up in more ways than one.

That is part of the risk, taping yourself doing those things...look at Tommy Lee & Pamela Anderson....

by Dignified   163 Posts
Posted on 12/3/2008 8:50 AM
0





Be careful you aren't blackmailing him.  Other than that, this is too out-there for me to touch.  God bless.
by Animator   772 Posts
Posted on 12/3/2008 2:57 AM
0







Divorce360.com is not a substitute for advice from a lawyer, accountant, financial planner, therapist or other professional to obtain advice. Divorce360.com is not intended to, and should not, take the place of professional advice. The opinions expressed in the divorce360.com message boards are those of the author and the author alone. Divorce360.com does not endorse any specific product or service.

expand information center
divorce360.com's ecards
divorce focused content ::
divorce most popular ::
1. When Is a Marriage Worth Saving?
10 Things to Think About When Considering Whether to Stick with a Relationship

2. 8 Things No One Ever Tells You about Divorce
Number Three May Surprise You

3. Divorcing? 15 Costly Financial Mistakes
Settlements: 15 Critical Financial Mistakes Often Made in the Heat of Divorce

4. Beginning Checklist: Planning to File for Divorce
12 Steps to Consider if You or Your Partner Have Decided to File for Divorce

5. Are You Ready For Divorce?
Three Key Questions You Must Ask Yourself