Revenge is a dish best served. . . . . . . . 

I have been on the 360 site for probably about a month now and I have noticed a lot of posts that talk about how they want their exs to feel as bad as they have made them feel.  I wanted to post this blog to share my story because my ex left me for another woman while I was pregnant with our 2nd child.  I let my thirst for revenge consume me until I made myself very sick and turned into a different person.  I was very bitter and wanted him to feel as miserable as I felt after what he had done to me.  After I had the baby, which he did not show up for, and my life settled down I stopped planning my revenge and started moving on with my life.  Funny enough, I ended up getting my revenge without having to do the 1st solitary thing to him.  
First thing, I signed over our home to him.  I did have to take care of some issues recently but did figure it out and the 500,000 home he is now losing to foreclosure because he and his new wife (a Registered nurse) cannot afford the payments.  
Second, because at first he was being difficult about child support and maintenance payments, the judge made him turn over a vehicle (his prized H2) to me that he had just put a lot of money into because of the money he owed me.  I took the vehicle and sold it and took a copy of the receipt to the courts so it could be knocked off the money owed.  They are also garnishing his check.  
Third, he was forced to sell his SLK Mercedes and now drives a Honda Civic.  (There is nothing wrong with a Honda Civic but he technically downgraded from the vehicle he had, so it was funny. They are actually very nice cars.)
Fourth, the new wife packed on several pounds after they married, so why I lost weight after the baby and am at a healthy 150 lbs standing 5'4" she is standing at 5'3" and is around 215 lbs.  Now I am guessing her weight but I know she is much heavier than me and it shows.  
So why I did not necessarily cause any of this, the courts suggested the vehicle trade and we both agreed, he asked me to sign the house over because after the first and second mortgages we would take a loss on the property if we tried to sell it and I agreed, I did not force a weight gain and I did not make him sell his car; I can look back in retrospective and know that I did get revenge and him knowing that I came out a better person and a much happier one was the best revenge of all.