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He told his last affair, that the reason he cheats on his wife is because she cheated on him, of course he doesn't remember telling her that, but really where else would she have gotten that from if not from him, thats exactly what she told me when I talked to her a few weeks ag.

But that is not correct. We got married in Germany, he found himself a little german girl, me,16, (oh wait, there were two others he screwed over there, besides myself) when I met him, got married two years later and I came with him, left my family, I loved him so much. Within a year of living in the US he decides he doesn't love me anymore, gives me divorce papers to sign, and I leave to stay with my sister in Oklahoma, he calles me back, made a mistake, I really love you, I go back to him, we live together as man and wife, but legally we are divorced, fast forward a few years, I get a phonecall, my mother is dying I have to go home to see her, stressed to the max while I'm there, 22 years old alone, and I met someone, he showed me some love and affection, and I screwed him one time, told my man over here I wasn't coming back I was staying there, oh no, I love you, I forgive you, please come back, and I did.

But man did I pay for my mistake, for the last 25 years, he's been paying me back for what I did to him, he never got over that, never mind I was divorced from him, oh yeah, two weeks after I came back from germany we got remarried, but he never forgave and he never forgot.

PS he wants me to come back home, he loves me, can't live without me, I'm his life, his breath, his heart, he'll never do it again, I'm the only one he loves, none of these affairs meant anything, my marriage has not been what I thought it was, but I will never call it a mistake because I have two beautiful children, and he now has nothing because he threw it all away for a piece of ass.