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Moving Out And Leaving Things Behind 

When I moved my things out, it was indeed quite akward because he didn't seem to mind that I was leaving, yet he kept walking by me down the hall and trying to see what was going on. I never wanted to move my things with him around, but he made sure he was there. Although I have been moved out for some time now, I realize that there are still things there in my old house. He has made it a point to let me come in whenever I please to get them, but I hesitate because whenever he sees me, he intimidates me, wants to hug me and give me a kiss. I get confused as to what his intentions are and don't want to face him again after he has put our family through all this turmoil. I wonder if those things I left behind are really as important as they used to be. With the holidays coming soon, I am starting to feel blue.
by deborah-trevino  1099 Posts 

Posted on 11/10/2008 10:39 AM 		Get AlertsGet Alerts!
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Yes, I agree, take a friend so you don't have to be alone with him when you get your stuff. He probably won't try the same thing in front of others. With you there on the holidays but already thinking of ways to still try to enjoy them.
by militaryp   2952 Posts
Posted on 11/10/2008 4:36 PM
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I hear you Deborah. I just left the bank. My dear ex got locked out of his acct. Since he is in Texas he asked me to help him out. Well guess whose name he had for a user name? But he still swears he didn't marry that girl.
So he is back in his acct. and it never ceases to amaze me how devious he can be.
by trisha9054   4967 Posts
Posted on 11/10/2008 11:59 AM
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thankyou so much. I think that I am just going through the blues and I wonder when it will end with this man. He has put all of my things into one room and I just dread having to face him right now because he will see it in my face that I am down and start asking questions.  See, he feels as though it's my fault for leaving because to this day he still claims there was no other woman, even amongst the proof.  What a guy, right?
by deborah-trevino   1099 Posts
Posted on 11/10/2008 11:48 AM
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Deborah don't be sad. You're in your own house and your children are with you. If you need to go back for anything make a list. Make one more trip and get everything. Take someone with you so you don't have to go alone.
I'm on my own for the holidays too. Start making plans now. Find local places you've wanted to see and haven't had the time. Make new traditions.
Me, I'm changing my menu for Christmas. It's going to be a big old steak and I will make a chocolate pie. I intend to eat it all by myself.
Take care
by trisha9054   4967 Posts
Posted on 11/10/2008 11:20 AM
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Deborah,
You will feel blue. But think of it as a case of the flu. It will pass with tons of self-inflicted TLC and a couple of upbeat videos.
Think of your ex as a germ bag and don't let him touch you...ever again...if you want to get over this relationship-flu.

Now...hug yourself.

Barbara Silkstone
by silkstone   7 Posts
Posted on 11/10/2008 11:19 AM
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