WAS IT THE RIGHT THING TO DO 

ME AND MY HUSBAND WERE TOGETHER FOR 10YRS MARRIED FOR 5 WE HAVE 7 KIDS TOGETHER IAM A FULL TIME NURSE AND HOUSEWIFE. WE STARTED HAVIN FINANCIAL PROBLEMS 2 YEARS AGO I FELT LIKE HE WASNT CONTRIBUTING ENOUGH TO HELP OUT WE HAD A BIG ARGUEMENT ABOUT THE PEOPLE THAT HE HANGS OUT WITH. I HAPPEN TO DISLIKE ALL OR THE MAJORITY OF HIS FRIENDS,ANYWAYS HE WASNT FOCUSED ON HIS RESPONSIBILTIES IN LIFE MAKING BAD CHOICES WITH THE WRONG PEOPLE. HE HAD GOT INTO TROUBLE WITH THE LAW FOR DRIVN ON A RESTRICTED LISCENSE TO WORK A COUPLE OF TIMES SO HE WAS ON PROBATION FOR AYEAR. HE HAD TO TAKE CLASSES AND ALL ANYWAY HE VIOLATED PROBATION BY NOT ATTENDN CLASSES AND SEEEING PAROLE OFFICER BUT HE WORKED OUT OF TOWN MOST OF TIME SO IT WAS HARD TO CATCH UP WITH HIM ONE NIGHT AFTER A STEAMY ARGUEMENT ABOUT MONEY IASKED HIM TO LEAVE. WE WERE SEPERATED FOR A MONTH AND I FOUND OUT HE WAS WITH ANOTHER WOMAN THAT SOON I WAS SO OUTRAGED THAT I CALLED HIS PAROLE OFFICER AND GAVE THEM HER ADDRESS THE POLICE PICKED HIM UP FROM THERE. THIS LADY IS KNOWN TO BE A HOMEWRECKER ANYWAY HE GOT TWELVE MONTHS FOR VIOLATING BUT HE TOLD ME HE HATED ME CAUSE I DID IT IFELT LIKR HE SHOULDVE BEEN USING THAT TIME IN THERE TO GET FOCUSED ON HIS CAREER AND KIDS INSTEAD OF HOLDING A GRUDGE AGAINST ME IT REALLY HAS GIVEN ME A CHANCE TO THINK HOW CAN YOU LAY BESIDE SOMEONE KNOWING THEY SHARED INTIMACY WITH SOMEONE LOWER THAN YOUR  STANDARDS YOU CAN FORGIVE BUT CAN YOU EVER ACTUALLY FORGET  ALWAYS IN THE BACK OF YOUR MIND OR WONDERING IF HE WILL DO IT AGAIN ANYWAYS HE ASKED ME FOR A DIVORCE  BECAUSE HE COULDNT BELIEVE I HAD DONE THAT BUT MAYBE ITS THE BEST THING FOR BOTH OF US