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How do you get over first loves 

I am having the hardest time getting over my first love. This first love has lasted 10yrs, produced a house, two kids etc. I am getting better, getting a little stronger but I still just can't seem to get over my first love. I want so bad to be able to make things work and try again, but he doesn't.It seems like it is taking so long and when I think I am making progress, something happens and I feel like I am back to square one. I am on such an emotional rollercoaster.

 

Has anyone out there, lost a first love that they remained good friends with, if so, please share your story.

by baddlizz  256 Posts 

Posted on 10/7/2008 10:20 PM 		Get AlertsGet Alerts!
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Baddlizz, maybe you will never get completely over him... just move on from him. There is a difference. I am starting to accept I may never get over my STBX... he was my best friend first, and then I fell madly in love with him... I think at some point, he fell out of love with me, but still counts on me as his best friend, to this day, over a year after we broke up. It aint easy staying close, especially because I want more and he doesnt. But its my decision to keep him in my life, and I have to take the situation for what it is... sounds like its a little tougher for you because you guys have kids together - what I would suggest is keeping your relationship strictly business (kids, necessary things, etc) until you are more comfortable with him being in your life not being YOURS.
Good luck to you, I know it SUCKS!
by daybyday21   144 Posts
Posted on 10/9/2008 4:24 PM
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Baddlizz, maybe you will never get completely over him... just move on from him. There is a difference. I am starting to accept I may never get over my STBX... he was my best friend first, and then I fell madly in love with him... I think at some point, he fell out of love with me, but still counts on me as his best friend, to this day, over a year after we broke up. It aint easy staying close, especially because I want more and he doesnt. But its my decision to keep him in my life, and I have to take the situation for what it is... sounds like its a little tougher for you because you guys have kids together - what I would suggest is keeping your relationship strictly business (kids, necessary things, etc) until you are more comfortable with him being in your life not being YOURS.
Good luck to you, I know it SUCKS!
by daybyday21   144 Posts
Posted on 10/9/2008 4:24 PM
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