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on the road 

okay, i'm on the road to maybe reconciling with my sh.  we are sort of just taking it one day at a time.  two weeks ago we had "special time" together which hasn't happened for over a year b/c of all the stuff going on between us. he has his own place now- which i nice.  we see eachother only about once a week so we are getting along great! :-)  he wants me to move in with him- but that won't be happening for about a year.  i'm trying to be very very careful. people very rarely change so i am hoping for the best but cautious.  he is doing his mandated weekend counseling class next month- tried to give me a guilt trip about the cost of it and the time; but i didn't bite.  aren't u proud of me?
by cag  115 Posts 

Posted on 10/2/2008 12:14 PM
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I am proud cag!!! good for you!  We're all routing for you!  Make sure you stop in from time to time to tell us how things are going!   I'll try to keep the "Long rambling" Rob blog post running for ya!  ;)
by Robert-Boyd   5134 Posts
Posted on 10/2/2008 1:08 PM
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Hi cag
I reread your story. Yes. Slow and easy is the way to go. I think the time frame is good. Extend it if you need to. At the first sign of a relapse don't make excuses for him.
I'm very proud of you but cautious is great. I like your attitude. Hope for the best but very aware it might not happen. I would hate to see you get hurt.
Take care and good luck
by trisha9054   4967 Posts
Posted on 10/2/2008 12:25 PM
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