What language do men speak? 

Maybe he was trying to get your number to get you into Amway...   LMAO!! 

Who knows.  This happens to clients of mine alot.  They meet a fellow, he asks for their # and doesn't call.  I don't know why it happens, but it does, and it seems it happens often.  It seems weird to me too.  If you don't plan to call, why clutter up your blackberry?

Regardless,  don't take it personally.  The fellow may just be really shy.  Who knows...

He asked you to call him so his phone could capture your phone number. You said it was dark. He was trying to make sure the number was correct.

Thanks for the man speak lesson. I was just puzzled of why he would have me give him my name and number and then ask me to call him. I really wasn't thinking about exchanging numbers. I was just having fun dancing. I was enjoying my time with him. So I surely wasn't going to call him if I wasn't thinking about calling him before he asked for my name and number. To me it would be like him asking me to by him a margarita after he asked me if I like margaritas. My immediate thought was that he was just being weird. I know men have hearts and feelings. I just wonder where their brains are sometime or what they are trying to communicate to me when they ask me to call them after I've given them my number when it was their idea to begin with. Thanks

uhm...I speak man, but it's apparently not what this guy was speaking. If I'm going to go to the effort of getting your name and number, I'll make the call. Especially when all I have to do is press a button on my Blackberry. Actually I think the language is clear here:" Let him go. Not worth the effort."

I know that if I asked a woman for her name and number, I would call. It could be that he initiated the request so that he could best determine if you were interested; and, then, it could be that he wanted to verify if you would be willing to bend to his whimsical request of calling him. Hard to really know since I am not him but I am a man. Personally, I believe you did the right thing at the time because you had already demonstrated interest. At this point in time, it is better to know that if indeed you were interested in this man that has your name and number; and, he does not call, you are in better position of knowing that he really was not worth your efforts... Just an opinion. Oh, and on the language men speak, it is the same as women if it comes from the heart.