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Warning: Blogging About your Divorce Can Be Dangerous 

A man was recently ordered by the judge in his divorce case to cease blogging about his divorce. 

http://www.nytimes.com/2008/01/10/us/10divorce.html

Apparently his soon to be ex wife asked the court to stop her husband from writing about their divorce on his blog. Does this infringe upon this man's rights under the first amendment? It may. The man in question did not receive a hearing before the judge demanded he stop blogging.

But there is another issue here to consider. If you are currently going through a divorce and letting off steam by by blogging about it online, you run the risk of your ex using the very information you wrote against you in court. Remember the saying never to put anything in writing? Be very careful what you put out on the Internet if you are currently involved in a divorce or custody case. It could come back to haunt you.
 
The same goes for emails. Do not hit the "send" button after firing off a nasty email to your ex. Ditto for text messaging. You should also be wary of leaving detailed voice messages on your ex's answering machine. This all sounds like common sense, but when you are in a divorce battle with your ex, logic can fly out the window. Never let your emotions get the best of you. If you are feeling angry and upset with your ex, do not call, email, text or blog about him. Instead take out a good old fashion piece of paper and write him a letter. Then take that letter and shred it, burn it or rip it into pieces. You will feel better and you will not run the risk of harming your divorce case.
by Christina-Rowe  298 Posts 

Posted on 1/16/2008 12:14 AM
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Interesting. Actually this is good information for me. that's part of the reason that I try my best to blog the positive stuff, and leave the negative or the ex. I intend to use what she's said later if I have to.
by Adrian-Clark   67 Posts
Posted on 1/18/2008 9:05 AM
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